You're the BOMB Honey !!!

Sometimes in life things get rough, your goals seem farther than they were before, simple tasks become harder, you want to lay in your bed and avoid the outside world because you need a break. It's all understandable to do that, people feel that way all the time I'm pretty sure it's apart of life and everyone goes through it once in a while. Things in your life my cause you to be discouraged, uninspired, or to procrastinate, especially when you're doing something that helps you to reach your goals.

You see your goals sitting there staring at you just waiting on you to make the move, to make it happen, to make it to the next level, but all of a sudden on the way to your goal you're already feeling a little sadness here and little anger there and then BOOM you hit a pothole and that just shattered your whole day, your whole ability to want to work or anything for that matter. You have thoughts running through your head of "how can I do this?" "I'm no good at this." "They are better than me at it, how can I compete?" "It's already too many people doing it what makes me feel like I can do it to?" "This isn't for me what was I thinking?" It really sucks knowing that there is something in your life that you want to do, but it seems so far away, so unbelievable, it seems impossible.

You look at people around you at your age or younger, you see how they're improving in life, making major moves, living in the success that you dream of every night you go to sleep. You hold yourself back thinking that there is absolutely no way you can compete or no way you can get to your goal and all of a sudden your goal seems unrealistic and you feel like it's not really worth it and you just want to give up. "I just want to be great." "I just want to be big." "Can I just make it already?" "Can something happen now?" "Why can't things just be the way I want them?UGH!"

LOL !!! Yeah me too. I'm a victim to this ... but in all reality I am actually the murderer of my own dreams and goals, just to be honest. I was in this place, well actually I'm still kind of there...

I look at the success of others and I am so excited for them but then I'm like "well why can't I do that?" "Why am I not there yet?" And I question myself to the core of my existence like geeshe girl get a grip. But then you know what I do? I actually answer the damn questions that I asked myself hahahahahahaha. And what I got was, I'm not working, I'm not working hard enough, I'm not doing what is required of me, I'm feeling bad for myself instead of motivating myself, I'm waiting for something to happen other than just creating my own reality. Then it's like damn I'm just terrible lol. (I know I'm not terrible). I am always honest with myself and I always laugh at myself. Because honestly I'm pretty damn funny in my head lmbo. But in all seriousness there were other things that I had to look at as well.

Timing and Understanding and Patience. I had to understand first, I had to understand that hey Katie, life doesn't wait for anyone your life is what you make of it, use your time wisely because it only comes once, you'll never get those seconds you just wasted back, easy lives don't come to everyone and sorry sis, but you are one of those people who have to work for what they want because nothing is just handed to you and everything comes with a price. I had to understand timing, that everything and everyone had their own time. People love working on their own clock hoping it will go as planned and then when it doesn't they get mad and it's because they can't control the fact that life gives what you need when you're ready, NOT when you THINK you're ready. If it hasn't came yet then #1 it's not for you right now and #2 you still have things to learn which means more obstacles, BUT trust me it'll be worth it.

Everyone wants their happiness now, everyone wants to be great now, everyone want great things to happen now, because it was their plan for their life. But once it comes you're not ready because you didn't learn what you needed or go through the obstacles and then Bam! You lose it, you want another chance, you didn't know what would happen, you didn't understand. But it doesn't work like that. You always think you're ready til it's time to be ready. Right gift but wrong timing, it came early because you rushed it then you lost it because the plans you thought of in your mind didn't apply to real life so now you're out of your chance. Now sometimes you might get a second one, but it's not promised.

Patience, you have to learn patience, you have to learn to let things come instead of rushing. Learning to wait has to be one of the most important things in life. But also learning that you have to work during this waiting period as well. You don't wait by laying down watching Netflix eating snacks, or out partying, or just being unproductive. If you have a goal you HAVE to work on it, because that thing that you are waiting on to happen requires the effort. Because like I said before, nothing is just given to you, wishing yourself into millions is about 1 out of a hell of a lot, so with that being said GET OFF OF YOUR ASS AND WORK. YOU ARE GREAT, YOU ARE YOU, YOU ARE UNIQUE, YOU PROVIDE NOT JUST A SERVICE OR PRODUCT BUT YOU SELL YOUR PERSONALITY AS WELL, YOUR LIFE IS WORTH SOMETHING, YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING, YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT, DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR YOURSELF, TAKE RESPONSIBILITY, UNDERSTAND LIFE ITSELF, YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE, THINGS COME IN TIME, THE BEST THINGS TAKE TIME TO GROW, REMEMBER EASY COME EASY GO, BE PREPARED, LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE IN YOUR MEANS, LOVE YOURSELF. BECAUSE I LOVE YOU. I don't know who needed to hear some of that but I meant every word.

And also, confidence is key, remember people doubt your gift if you're not confident in it. Take pride in yourself and be the best self you can be.

Now go on and be that big bright beautiful person and take the world by storm. Trust me I'm not sleeping on you, but some are so I hope they're ready for this alarm, cause were coming.

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